Somtimes we, as Christians, decide we are going to say something to someone regardless if it hurts them or not. I am not sure that is always best, though there are times when a person needs to hear certain things especially if they have done something hurtful. I think it is always important to speak the truth in love regardless of what it is you say. I guess we need to think it through before we say it to be sure that it is from the Spirit of God. Boy, it has been a hard day!
I totally agree. Out of devilish anger we might spit out something we really don't mean that could really do some damage. We should act as Believers and forgive and forget and remember we all fall short. I also feel we should all love as God loves us and I know by blessing each of us with a conscious he is letting us know, even though we wish we could hide some things. Nothing can be hidden from him as we should all join together and appreciate honesty from friends and loved ones. No matter what an individual that sincerely cares about your well being will be honest. not out of anger, but love, even if they think they might offend you or hurt your feelings. Honesty is the best policy. Lies are evil and will catch up with you everytime.