Me and my wife we argue everyday it seem but, I want to be obedience to the word of God. See, I'm not one for complaining and arguing but, she just want to provoke me in silly little arguements. I know I have my shortcomings, and I'm far from perfect but, when I see wrong I cannot and will not agree with it no matter who it is. And because I want us to have things of our own and she want to stay under her mother she claim that I'm jealious. now I know we were in an accident eightteen(18) months ago and her mother was injured myself as well and the doctors said that I was hurt the baddest but because her mother is older and have diabetes she refuse to just move out from with her mother and maybe find a place close by. She contiue to use her mother as an excuse even though there are aides who come and take care of her. I'm living in a very bad enviornment a house full of grown kids and I don't use that word when discribing human children but her mother have two of her oldest son living with us and they just don't respect anyone not even their mother and I just can take it anymore some one give me an answer.

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Blessed to be a blessing from God

I was not in a Good Marriage, But I did everything I could to keep it together. Friend, No one is going to advise you to get a divorse and separation is hard to come out of without a divorsce. Thank about what you can change to make the situation better. Can you change her, not likely? Can you change were you live, eventually? Changing ourself by prayer and God spirit. Tough times make God's people better. you will love yourself for getting through this and She will Love you for sticking this out. Prayer is being offered on your behalf. No temptation is given that is not common to all men. Hold strong.
Sid

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globally challenged

Well can't tell u anything more than everybody has already told u but i can tell u this that from what i went through, i have learn alot and thank's God that we didn't let our enemy ( devil )
mess our marriage up... i have three Beautiful kids and that would've been a victory for satan and his boys... there's always someone else worst position than we are and beside remember that God won't put us in a situation that we can't handle....

God Bless

ricky

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(( ricky ))

If you are loosed from your wife, stay single.

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'If You Love Me, Keep My Commandments'