what is a gal to do, if the guy she loves tells her he is not sure if he loves her anyone as he thinks she demonises people with kids outside marriage? He has a seven year old son and she doesn't. She does get on well with the son, just that in their discussions she came out a little bit too strong on hving kids outside wedlock and he took it personal. Tolf her that holier than thou gals who demonise others are not his type. That has strained the relationship but the gal wants to work out the relationship. There is no other reason other than this.