ok so theres guy ( its always a guy) that I like on this site! He's funney, honest, knows Jesus, and, He's basically my type (if you know what I meen). Problem, He's becoming more like a brother then a close friend! I wanna ask him out but I am afraid if we ever broke up we wouldn't be as close, that it might ruen our friend ship. I deffinetly don't wanna ruen our friendship by dating him! Anyhow, He likes me too! And I asked one time online (so i wouldn't have to face to face), "If I ever asked you out would you say yes?" He said that He would! Kinda cool that hes going bassed on my personality ( I hate guys that only date a girl for her body, It's so mean because, she could be the one and they just figure if she's boobs or a big back end then shes my girl! nooooooooooooooooooooooo!) not my body style or how I do my hair, or even if i have a big chest!! anyhow, back on topic!.... I really like him alot! I am just nervous as to, how far I should go? oviously no sex! But should I ask him out? do i continue as things are now? what?

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be confident. I just typed out a whole reply but my comp messed up so.... ask him on the internet and see how he acts when yall r face-to-face! simple... confidence!!!
hope i helped
--jessie--

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"Serve your Lord with gladness. Come before His presence singing." -Psalms 100:2

I have to disagree jesusfreak ask him in person and if you read my deal on here i messed up becuse i didnt ask him or let him know I was intrested

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IM SIZZLING 4 CHRIST ... are you?

you are having the same problem i did i have known this guy named brandon mclanahan and he lived next door to me and i would allways call him or see him when he got off the school bus cause i walked home from my buss stop. i known him all my life he was practicly my big brother. i started falling in love with him and it happend to him the same way.well i was talking to him one night when my mom and dad were gone and he asked me out and i said yes and he was so happy that he wouldnt stop calling me and telling me how much he loved me. well we broke up about 1 or 2 years after and we started not talking to each other and then i called him and he said that since you and i are no more that means that our friendship is no more.


well that is my story but i think you should listen to your heart and do what you think is right. if you really like him and he really likes you then ask him. you could allways ask him if you guys would still be friends if you ever broke up. im sure that if you guys really love each other you guys wont break up for a long time.

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I LOVE JORDAN HARTMANN

jesusfreak0806 wrote: be confident. I just typed out a whole reply but my comp messed up so.... ask him on the internet and see how he acts when yall r face-to-face! simple... confidence!!! hope i helped --jessie--

I totally agree but I think you should do it in person. It means so much more that way. And if you want it to be memorable, do something cute and cheesy like buy a ring pop get down on one knee and ask him out... I know its kinda stupid but Ive always wanted someone to do that to me! lol and if you are still unsure there is always one sure-fire way to find out if its the right thing to do... ASK GOD! lol He will always set you straight

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Im lost without YOU

First of all do you two even live in the same state or city or is it some friend on christunion. The best biblical thing you can do is to seek God's word and pray. Depending on your age and situation I would look at it carefully. Ask yourself is this going to take my focus off God and all I think about is him. Ask yourself am I ready to court this person for the possibility of marriage. Ask yourself if you are really ready for commitment.If you can bear with me as you will and don't think about him and what you want and really seek God and ask yourself these heart questions.

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Daughter of the King!

we are dating now!

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AWSOME! (even though i knew that l0l) but im happy for you *hugz*

I like that ring pop idea that would be sweet

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IM SIZZLING 4 CHRIST ... are you?

ok I would just ask him and see how he feels about everything and just let it in gods hands!
And maybe he like you!

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Sizzel4Christ wrote: AWSOME! (even though i knew that l0l) but im happy for you *hugz* I like that ring pop idea that would be sweet

I think maybe that will B a good Idea!

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