I am a painfully shy, plussized Christian [Catholic] woman who has pledged to be celibate till marriage. Born again virgin, as they say. [who are 'they' anyhow?}.
I am 28, never married, no children.I have been looking for Mr Right for, well, it feels like since forever.
Everywhere I turn there are men who say they are looking for a serious relationship but they are all out for one thing and one thing only. The one thing I have no intention of doing without a wedding ring on my hand!!
I know that there have to be a few good single men out there just praying that they will meet a single, old fashioned woman to settle down with.
Why is it that I can never seem to find one? *lol*. It seems all the good ones are spoken for. Which is great for the lucky ladies who have snagged them but that leaves myself, and many other ladies out of luck.
So, where do we go? Where do we meet the man we were born to be with?
I've prayed for patience and I do have faith that when the time is right, God will see to it that I am in the right place at the right time to meet the man he has chosen for me. I just also happen to believe that God helps those who helps themselves. I need to meet Him halfway.
Which is why I have started checking out online sites, such as this one.
I am painfully shy. I don't drink, don't smoke, don't dance. I wouldn't ever want to go to a bar, a club or to any of those 'speed dating' events I've heard so much about over the last few years. Besides which, I don't think I would ever possibly meet my future spouse at any of those place. *lol*.
The fact is, I know I mighht be able to find a wonderful man if I attended church but I am painfully shy anddon't get out much. None of my friends attend mass and going alone, well, due to my shyness and the fact that I don't drive...I digress.
Does anyone know of any wonderful single, Christian men just wishing, hoping, praying for an old fashioned gal to settle down with?
How about a Christian [or even specifically Catholic] dating site that is either free or free for women??
I hope that my rant wasn't too dull.

Warmest Regards,
Christina Jane

--------------------------------------------------------------
Old Fashioned Gal Trapped in A Modern World [Seeking Old Fashioned Man to be "trapped" here with} :)

Hi i sympathise with your position. God has powerfully touched my life with the following resources. I would strongly reccomend that you look into these before you find these dating sites.

as a old fashioned person, as you said you are, which is great, i really believe you will love these sites. I am tradional myself and these changed my life eternally for the better. please let me know what you thought of them.

www.sermonindex.com look for a dating sermon by paul washer. it will be worth it. In Jesus' name trust me on this.

www.wayofthemaster.com. www.wayofthemasterradio.com www.needgod.com

thanks for your time, let me know what you think. keep to your Godly principles, it will be worth it.

martin

--------------------------------------------------------------
Have you shared the true Gospel with the lost lately?

i am interested to hear an update.

It's not free but I do know that christiansinglesdepot.com screens thier site regularly and manually reviews profiles for content to keep thier site cleaner and more christian.

I agree with you. Im 21 and I am very shy and have a hard time meeting a good christian guy that doesn't want one thing only. In my small town all the guys that I know are either married and into drug and single and into drugs. They aren't a lot of guys my age in my church. I promised myself to wait until marriage but I've never even had a boyfriend and I am starting to think that my dreams of being a mom will never happen.