My name is Michelle Sauer. And I currently have a marvelous and an ideal boyfriend right now and like you have requested, i would like to give you some advice to how to become a Christ-like and honoring boyfriend. In all things you do put on the armour of God, that you will not fullfill the lusts thereof. Put on the Lord Jesus Christ and have the mind-set of Christ. Seek ye the kingdom of God and all these things will be adden unto you. But godliness with contentment is a great Gain. 1 Timothy 6:6 From experience, when you are in a relationship, you need mutual love, compassion, mercies, forgiveness, encouragement, a helpful spirit, joy, peace, faithfulness(most important of all). Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: ever as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. Colossians 3:12-14